Boundless Compassion, Healthy Boundaries (in-person)
with Hannah Kinderlehrer & Holly Gayley
Boundless Compassion, Healthy Boundaries with Holly Gayley and Hannah Kinderlehrer
In person in the Main Shrine Room
Saturday December 14th
9:30am to 12:30pm & 2pm to 5pm
Subsidized: $45
Full price: $75
Sponsor: $108
FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE: If you are in need of financial assistance or you have any questions about payment, please contact Colin Stubbert at [email protected]. We will NOT turn anyone away for lack of funds.
Many of us long to make the world a better place, yet the demands of daily life and the relentless news cycle can overwhelm us, leading to feelings of isolation and limitation. To engage with courage and compassion, we need to cultivate inner resources that allow us to confront suffering—both within ourselves and in the world. Many believe that an open heart makes us vulnerable to burnout or being taken advantage of, but true compassion, supported by healthy boundaries, is an active and empowering force. It enables us to empathize without becoming enmeshed in others' suffering, allowing us to support healing and positive change with a “soft heart and strong back,” remaining open yet grounded and resilient.
In this one-day workshop, we will grow our heart’s capacity to give and receive love, nourishment, joy, and effective care. This is a reciprocal process, allowing us to remain resourced while we extend our care to others. Through experiential exercises and guided meditations, we will engage in compassion practice and learn the skills of attunement, grounding, co-regulation, recognizing triggers, healthy boundaries, and relational attunement.
This is a workshop to empower us to unfetter our hearts and activate our gifts for the benefit of self and others.
Come play, dance, engage in dialogue, and bask in a day of self-care and capacity building. No experience necessary. All abilities, ages, and identities are welcome. Dress comfortably and relaxed for meditation and movement. You are invited to bring an object to co-create a group altar.
Holly Gayley is a scholar and translator of Buddhist literature in contemporary Tibet and associate professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. Her research explores gender and sexuality in Buddhist tantra, literature by and about Tibetan and Himalayan women, ethical reform in contemporary Tibet, and theorizing translation, both literary and cultural, in the transmission of Buddhist teachings to North America. She is author of Love Letters from Golok: A Tantric Couple in Modern Tibet (2016) and editor of Voices from Larung Gar: Shaping Tibetan Buddhism for the Twenty-First Century (2021). Her most recent book is Longing to Awaken: Buddhist Devotion in Tibetan Poetry and Song (2024), co-edited with Dominique Townsend. For more than two decades, she has regularly led meditation workshops and retreats.
Hannah Kinderlehrer is a devoted advocate for Mama Earth and all her creatures, dedicated to fostering connection within individuals and between people and the Earth. As a holistic coach, she integrates Hakomi Depth Psychology, Shamanic journey work, embodiment practices, and nervous system resilience. Her journey with chronic illness has made her an expert in health and well-being, which she shares through coaching, Shamanic Journey dances, and workshops, retreats, and groups, internationally and nationally. With a BA from Naropa University and certifications as a Peacemaker and Hakomi Practitioner, Hannah creates safe, relational spaces enriched by studies in polyvagal theory, non-violent communication, and Tibetan Vajrayana practices.